rents philosophy

My mom has always taught me to put others into consideration before I made a judgment call. To think for others along with myself when it came down to decision time. She believes that gods or no gods helping people and living a “good” life is the way to go. However, she often warned me of helping people, saying “The first time someone makes a mistake you help them up because they don’t know better, the second time they make the same mistake you help them up because they are your friends. If it happens again, you should consider making new friends because they rely on you to get them out of trouble, it is no longer helping but spoiling, don’t stunt their growth. When they have learned maybe you could become friends again. She also told me to be careful of who I helped and to make sure to know the type of person I am helping, not to get taken advantage of. The world is full of evil she said and evil puts on a smile and a mask. The main thing she has been stressing lately is however the idea that each person only has a set amount of “play” and “fun” either you work hard and enjoy later in life, or you play now and work hard your later life.